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Ar scáth a chéile a mhaireann na daoine

We live in one another's shelter.

The line most often read at Irish weddings, and it is not about marriage at all. People live in one another’s shelter. Choose it over the direct blessings when you want the reading rather than the wish.

Ar scáth achéile a mhaireann na daoine We live in one another's shelter. AOIFE & PÁDRAIG · 18 IÚIL 2027 Ar scáth a chéile a mhaireann na daoineSeanfhocal · Irish proverbSay it: err skaw a KHAY-leh a WAR-un na DEE-nehGovernment of Ireland · seanfhocail.ie

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About this saying

The proverb’s engine is the word scáth, which means shadow and shelter at once. Stand close enough to something to be sheltered by it and you stand in its shade. That is why the line works at weddings and funerals alike: it is not about love or grief but about the architecture of depending on one another, and love and grief are what happen when that architecture is built or falls.

Modern Ireland has adopted it as something close to a civic motto. Read at ceremonies, quoted by presidents, and pressed into service on national public-health messaging when the country needed one sentence about mutual obligation. Ó Dónaill also preserves an older verb form of the same proverb, Ar scáth a chéile a mhaireas na daoine, which has its own record.

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